The time has come to rethink rewards. As humans we reward ourselves for good behavior, such as a successful achievement. We also reward ourselves for avoiding bad behavior, like not biting our nails.
Many of us use rewards to play internal games to get through the stuff we really don’t want to do. “If I do the dishes right after dinner, then I can watch an extra hour of Netflix without feeling guilty!” Or, “If I finish the yard work, I can spend the afternoon on the deck with a couple beers!”
This system often focuses on rewarding the wrong part behavior or not using rewards we truly covet.
We love our creative pursuits, so why do we feel a need to reward ourselves for accomplishing small parts of our projects or completing them? Why isn’t the end result enough of a reward in itself?
Why isn’t the end result enough
of a reward in itself?
The answer here is “work”. We are not rewarding the success of reaching a milestone. We are rewarding the end of hard work. If it was hard work to polish off a dozen red velvet cupcakes, you can bet we’d be finding a way to reward ourselves for such a feat.
We need to change our mindsets. We can continue to reward the hard work, but why not choose a different reward. Instead of picking something fleeting like a sweet treat or streaming videos, give yourself uninterrupted and guiltless time for something you love. Hell, let’s reward any achievement with more time for creativity. “Wow, I just finished binge-watching this Netflix series, I’m going to reward myself with an hour of writing!”
Let’s admit to ourselves that creativity should be our reward in the mess of both responsibilities and leisure activities in our lives. Our passions should be the rewards for which we strive. Sure the work is hard, but we aren’t seeking the “phew that’s over feeling.” We crave the “Wow, I’m proud of what I created” euphoria.
“Wow, I’m proud of what I created”
We should reward hard word while at the same time the reward should be something we love. Choosing rewards is as important as choosing what efforts to reward.
So, for the hard work of finishing this post I’m rewarding myself with a half dozen donuts, and the hard work of devouring these sweet treats will be rewarded with more time for writing.
Are you rewarding the achievements or the efforts? Do you ever use more creative time as a reward? What do you think of rewarding yourself with more time for creativity?